As we take time to rest and relax at the end of the year, the media entices us to reflect on the year gone by – the top news stories, the most popular songs and movies, and the antics of so-called celebrities. As we reflect on the past and think ahead to the new year, one word comes up over and over again: RESOLUTIONS.
Whether we are in the practice of making new year's resolutions or think they are cliché, we should look to a specific part of the word. When we make a resolution, we actually resolve to do something. Oftentimes resolutions take the shape of self-improvement. These are good plans, and I encourage you to make them! On the other hand, I would also encourage each of us to take some time to resolve any areas of difficulty with others.
Disagreements, hurt feelings, and other interpersonal issues can come to a resolution, which means they can be solved. Is there a difficulty with a person or a difficult situation in your life that you need to resolve? It takes a lot to summon the courage to speak honestly to people and forgive, or even to ask for forgiveness. The hopeful result, however, can certainly make that encounter well worth it.
What does scripture have to say? In Paul's letter to the church in Ephesus we read: ""In your anger do not sin": Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry" (Ephesians 4:26). The title of that section is "Instructions for Christian Living". The Christ that we read of in the Gospels is the Christ of relationships. In those relationships we see the following: learning, healing, growth, purpose, and love.
As 2014 comes to an end, let us reflect upon our relationships and resolve to end any difficulties, as we resolve to do better and to be better in 2015. "Do not let the sun go down" on 2014 without thinking about how to resolve anything that may be unresolved.
Best wishes for a Happy New Year. God bless you all, and keep living Marist!
Luis Ramos
Chair, Marist Young Adult Advisory Committee